That supposed 'feature' of the iPad/iPhone drove me crazy too. I didn't want iPhoto to open every time I connected my iPad but when I looked in iPhoto or iTunes there was no setting to control this. The same thing would happen when connecting my iPhone, iPod and digital camera. So I finally figu...
Yep, the Pogo stylus was horrible, the tip disintegrated, it was pathetic! Now I've gone green and use an organic stylus, it's called...The CARROT!! Don't believe me? Try it, I dare you!